There are lots of circumstances for everyone where you come to sorta hate or dislike another person, be surprisingly irritated or annoyed by another, either for them being just themselves or for the faults that they had actually committed to you or others.
Either its an ex that cheated and treated you with no ounce of appreciation towards your years of life with him, a housemate not knowing how to settle their own dishes, roommates that lack respect of your rights and privacy, your irresponsible group mate thats always a no-show leaving you with tons plus another ton of crap to settle, the other girl that looked too pretty and too loved, or just that hye bye friend whom her ways are so different than yours thats harder to get along and whats left between you two is only judgements.
Have you ever wonder, what if, in reference to the much of dislike you have towards them, Allah on the other hand, loves them, EVEN MORE than He loves you. How kita tgk dia sebelah mata je, but Allah values them and their ranks are positioned higher closeat to Him.
Kita boleh fikir je org tu jahat ye, kureengg sikit, tp macam mana kalau kita fikir, dia BELUM jadi baik. Baiknya who knows even better than we may ever be. Mungkin Allah sedang uji dia dgn kekurangan dia tu. Yg mana Allah tak uji kita dari segi tu. Dan mungkin sangat Allah sedang menguji KITA, bagaimana kita menghadapi orang2 yg kurang/tak baik dia mata kita ni.
Ada kakak kata, theres a hadis, somewhat sounding like dont judge orang yg buat dosa di siang hari sbb mungkin dia bertaubat pada Allah dan menyesali kesalahan n kekurangannya di malam hari.
Another one on a person one day, brought up front to Allah and his endless good deeds are mentioned, the angels are ready to escort him to Jannah. But Allah says..NO, his place is in hell. Because in his single deeds there is no IKHLAS. And that is the matter only Allah knows, yang Maha Mengetahui, Maha Adil, semua kuasa di TanganNya.
Imagine that person that looks so evil, but who knows he makes taubat everyday to Allah crying. His good deeds are so little and so small, but his heart to it, verily he did it only for Allah.
Compared to us yang keletak keletuk solat tak pernah miss, tp hati tak pernah hadir.
A friend cerita, jgn kau hina orang yg dah berzina dan terlalu byknya dosanya apabila sungguh2 dia menyesal nak taubat pada Allah. Kedudukannya lebih tinggi dari orang yg selalu solat tapi sekali tu tertinggal solat subuh, tp hati takde rasa penyesalan etc.
Ter pernah alami this except kat egypt ni. Where i got to know of someone, whose not really that fond of me. Talks about me behind my back and to other friends. Shes Just easily 'annoyed' by me, my presence. which is weird -.- and useless.
yang paling sedihnya, ever since i knew that, i found myself treating her differently also. hmmm. which is a no no good.
One thing about loving those who love you, and also loving even if he on the other hand, hates you.
One thing to forgive out of love when people accidently hurt you, and to forgive also even though he did it on purpose.
Once there was this man who really hated this other guy, caught saying "Man i'd kill him given the chance". One day, the first guy died. And the good second guy went to this hating dead guy's family and tells them, "Now that you lost the head of your home, whatever you need, i am here for you, please come to me for things you used to come for to your dad."
The people are asking "You should be happy now he is gone, why are you doing this, that guy is hateful towards you." and he replies, "How can anyone be happy towards the death of a believer ? Whatever's between me and their late dad is only between us."
Bottom line, live life with Nabi saw's standards, higher in mercy and compassion and humility. My advice to myself, jangan la benci sesape, tak suka sesape, malu pd Allah dgn kedudukan kita sebenarnya ni. Uhu uhu.
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